- Douglas MacArthur
We've talked a lot about figuring out who we are. We've listed our strengths and cataloged our weaknesses. So now what? What do we do with all that we've discovered about ourselves?
We are unique and that makes us valuable!

Our strengths and weaknesses can be used as a road map to being our best self.

I want to hone my strengths! I want to work towards fostering them and making the most of my gifts. For example, since one of my strengths is being comfortable with quick decisions and speaking in front of others, I decided to help head up our PTO at school. I am using my strengths in a way that helps others and helps me improve my skills.
I also want to work on my weaknesses. I want to get better at the things that are hard for me. PTO is forcing me to work on my tunnel vision issues (I lose sight of the people involved in the tasks and just try to get it done) and on my pride. PTO is a relatively thankless role. It's hard work with no pay and little credit for a good reason. Volunteering, knowing that there probably won't be anything in it for me, is helping me be a better servant and focus less on myself - lessons I really need to learn.
Our strengths don't make us better than others, and our weaknesses don't make us less than others.

So next time we see something in ourselves we don't like, instead of beating ourselves up and wishing we were someone else, let's remember that everyone out there has issues. We are all alike in that.You aren't any less than any other woman out there! Don't forget it!
On the flip side, next time I see something in myself that I like, I need to remember that I'm not the only one in the world with something to offer. I'm not any better than the other women out there just because I have a strength. They do too! I need to turn my focus off myself and onto the gifts of those around me.